Showing posts with label Alabama. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Alabama. Show all posts

Saturday, March 2, 2013

From Alabama to Texas via Arkansas


(Photo: My sister Kathleen on left and me, Maryanne, 1978)

When I was an adult, with children of my own, my sister Kathleen revealed that it was she who told our father where to find me. My sister begged my dad to fetch me from the clutches of Mable, the woman whom my mother had left me with just before I turned 7. Mable lived in Prattville Alabama and that too was a mystery to me until later in life. As mentioned, it was while living with Mable I turned 7 and then experienced my very first sterile Christmas. I was stuck with Ms Mable because my mom had to rush to California to be with her ailing mother. In my heart I was with Mable too long starting from the minute my mom disappeared.

With my sister's prompting my father found me. I had not seen my father since the night he wrecked my mom's big green Pontiac, Sky Chief. Of course, most likely there were several days between the  night Sky Chief died and the day of my parents split up. The night my father wrecked our car was my last memory of my father's arms and face, until seeing him again at Mable's. When my father pulled up into Mable's dirt driveway I became openly giggly and very happy that my dad was rescuing me from Mable. After a huge hug and squeeze from my dad, I threw my first blatantly nasty "I hate you" look at Mable as I ran to the room I slept in to collect my belongings. I did not have much to pack. I grabbed and bagged a few pieces of clothing, which included a pair of brown shoes, a couple pair of under ware, a pair of socks (I don't recall wearing socks much as a child) two sundresses, a pair of shorts and a little shirt and maybe a tad more I really can't recall. I do recall that what I grabbed fit perfectly crumpled up into one paper bag and of course I had on my flip flops and some pants and a blouse. The one thing I did not want to leave behind and that did not fit into my bag was my Chatty Cathy doll that my mom sent me for Christmas. My toy doll had beautiful blond hair and on our first day together I learned that piles of sand in an Alabama yard such as Mable's were not the best choice to sit on and play for they are created by Fire Ants. I literally felt what "ants in my pants" was and it was not fun. Fire Ants are called Fire Ants for a reason; their bite burns like fire. Of course Chatty Cathy talked, but that is not why I loved her. I loved that funny doll so much because "she" was my  friend along with my real friend Peanut. No matter how much Mable yelled, or struck out at me with her long clawed hands, or slapped me with a belt or wooden spoon, or ignored me and made me go without eating, Chatty was always nice to me. Peanut too. Peanut my friend was never mean and Chatty and Peanut made living with witchy Mable tolerable.  I could talk to Chatty and Peanut and both knew how to keep a secret, especially dark secrets. 

 (Chatty Cathy 1961 vintage Google Images)

At first my father took my doll out of my hands and handing Chatty to Mable denied my friend's escape too. I cried. No, I threw a fit. A fit that made it impossible for my dad to leave Chatty Cathy alone with Mable, so into the car I leapt with Chatty in hand and with the slamming of a heavy metal car door I never looked back at "that place" again. I didn't even try to look for my friend Peanut's face outside the car for fear and anger that I might catch a glimpse of that awful mean lady. Safe, I relaxed with a smile in my heart as the car buzzed along the backcountry road heading toward an airport. 



I could feel the slipping away of daytime even through the thick gray skies of winter. The thickness of gray would hide the sun, stealing away most of the sun's light and denying shadows. I did not need to see the sun or shadows because my senses would whisper to me how much time I had until true nightfall. I think that perhaps when you grow with the weeds outside the way I did, you can feel the earth and the sky just like a weed does. I was a weed in the sense of learning to be adaptive to my life's ever changing landscapes and I was developing a tenacious spirit with a strong will to survive. My weedy nature's tenacity and adaptability proved valuable as my years piled up behind me. My sweetest years were over by the time I was 5ish having witnessed the KKK burning a cross that opened the passageway to the reality of the ugly side of the human beast. I began to see that it was not just my parents who could not get along. I was learning people, in general, were not nice. My day began in a hostile place where the word love was never spoken and now, as the grayness of the skies spoke of late afternoon I found myself with my father and also my sister Kathleen and her husband plus another man who was called "pilot" and we were going somewhere far away from Alabama.

(image google images)

I was overjoyed by and overcome by the fact I was with family again. We all stood along side a small airplane that was red and white and the plane had a propeller. I was not a stranger to airplanes being a seasoned military brat so when I was told to jump in I eagerly let my father lift me high into the air and crawled aboard the four seat-er plane. Four seats. There were five of us. The pilot took his seat and my father sat beside as co-pilot. My sister and her husband sat behind the pilots in the only two other seats in the plane. I was put in the back with the luggage. Chatty too, rode in the back of the little plane with me. I curled up atop some suitcases loose like a piece of parcel and Chatty had to stand with her legs pinned by some luggage and she was looking right me. Her face is burned into my memory cells.

Chatty Cathy's face is burned into my head because of what happened in the middle of the night in that little plane that was our ride to Lubbock Texas. I was born fearless. I think many children are. Children are taught fear and the ugly things of life through experience. This night the little red and white airplane taught me a little bit more about fear. The night's skies were dark except for occasional lightening flashes. I remember my sister asking a bunch of questions that made no sense and her husband telling her to shush. I was fascinated by the temperament of the night skies outside the plane and ignored the voices in the cabin. The plane started to make funny noises and then those noises would stop - leaving a big gap of silence that silenced the grown-up passengers too. I put out my feelers and knew that something was wrong and my weedy senses made me feel tight inside as fear grabbed up my legs. Fear spewed all over the cabin from the adults as they began raising their voices. Lightening flash. Chatty Cathy's face would light up and I would see her staring at me coldly in the suffocating silence that would last for a second in eternity. My sister began crying and sobbing something about her baby because at 16, she was pregnant with her fist child. My father being my father was laughing and sharing his bottle of spirits with the pilot and my brother-in-law. Once, maybe twice my father yelled asking if I was okay saying my name in his spanish/gaelic/english drunken slur. Chatty's face would flash with light and I could see the fear in my doll's face.

The plane soon was not making any sound at all and I could hear the outside come into the cabin with us. The invading darkness with lightening joined my sister's crying, my brother-in-law's squeaking, my father's laughter, and the pilot's silence broken only by his radio calls for help. I know what "Mayday Mayday" sounds like and what it feels like from a 7 year old's perspective. "Mayday Mayday please make Chatty stop staring at me and make everyone be quiet", that is what my call for help was. I wanted to be outside of the plane because it was too tight inside once the plane lost its generator. In the middle of the mayhem of chaotic voices and lightening flashes and drops and pitches I began to see a row of blue lights in the distance. We were close to an airport in Little Rock Arkansas. The pilot used the blue lights to guide our plane toward the general vicinity of an airstrip. The little red and white plane was not so gently falling from the dark skies but yet, obeying the pilot. The pilot although a bit under the influence of booze was able to put us on the ground - without breaking up. The landing was not the best but I had been in a louder landing and to me sound made the difference between horrible and terrible. I looked at Chatty and decided we would part ways because she could not rid her face of fear. Once inside the airport the adults regained their composure and rehashed the experience we just lived through. I sat unseen and listened. With the relief of not crashing, everyone's appetites engaged and we dinned on vending machine candy. I ate my first and last Cherry Mash candy bar and drank an RC Cola. The Cherry Mash candy bar was more horrible than being in a plane with no power, looking at Chatty Cathy, in a storm, in the dark of night, over Arkansas.
With the plane fixed and we were all aboard again, we finally landed in Lubbock Texas. Texas is where I became acquainted with dust storms, more unsavory characters, strange adventures, and hunger. My life in Texas began the serious peeling away of my veneer called childhood.


to be continued ...

(All stories blogged by me are my property and protected under copyright laws. No part may be used or reproduced in anyway without my permission ~ Maryanne Mesplé) 

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Lunch With Gregory Peck, Scout's Father


Harper Lee's book, To Kill a Mockingbird, was published in 1960 and it did not take long for this wonderful story to be made into a movie by the same name.  The movie, To Kill a Mockingbird, was not released until 1962.  Harper Lee's story takes place in a fictitious town much like Ms. Lee's hometown Monroeville Alabama.
It was in the early 60's that I lived in Montgomery Alabama with my mom. I had a sister and brothers too, and a father, but all of my family had left my life, excepting for my mom. My mom had not left my life - yet. As for my father I had no clue where he was living. All I knew about my father was my brothers were living with him because "boys" should be with their father; that is what I was told. My sister who was 15ish married her one and only love of her freshman year in high school. My sister, all grown up at 15, no longer needed to be at home and attend silly high school. My sister moved to Mobile Alabama with her good looking husband to start a life together. That left me and my mom together, alone, in Montgomery.

My mother had a knack for attracting the most interesting people into her life. While living in Montgomery, my mom being newly divorced, began dating. Mom was having a great time feeling alive again after feeling for years like she had died and no one buried her; my mom's words. My mom married my dad when she was 16 before she ever really had a life of her own. Once my mom left my father she had a blast, I know, I was there. My mother met Bob the newspaper reporter while having her fun and they began to date. One day, shortly after mom and Bob began dating, he told her he had arranged a meeting with Gregory Peck and wanted to take us along with him.

(Photo owned exclusively by Maryanne Mesple do not copy and use in anyway)

Gregory Peck was in Alabama to get a feel for his role as Atticus Finch so he visited Monroeville, where Harper Lee grew up. Harper Lee said her book was fictional except for the flavor of life the characters in her story led which reflected her young life in her hometown. Bob, being a reporter for one of the local Montgomery newspapers, was given the assignment to interview Mr. Peck. I guess that interview was about filming the movie and what it was like to be Atticus Finch and I really don't know the questions Bob asked of Mr. Peck.
Bob brought mom and I along for one of his meetings with Gregory Peck and my mom says she was awestruck. Mom says Gregory Peck was so laid back and spoke with such gentleness that she could not believe he was an actor. My mother told me recently she was expecting to meet a man who was arrogant and snippy based on her experience from when she had met several famous Country Western Stars. My mother said that some Country Western Music stars had their noses in the air so high it was a wonder they did not pass out from lack of oxygen. Gregory Peck was a normal person and not self absorbed at all. Mom said he even spoke with her like she was his life long friend and that she felt like she was somebody too.
In the photo above, and yes it is my personal photo of Gregory Peck, you see Bob and Mr. Peck walking and if you look closely next to Bob's right, you can barely see the tip of my mom's coat ... my mom was notorious for cutting herself out of pictures! My mother never liked how she looked (sound familiar anyone?) and I am grateful she did not use pinking sheers on this photo! Mom loved her pinking sheers and most of her photos that she chopped herself out of were altered with those sheers!  I am thrilled the photo survived my mom's moods and that she has given it to me.

(Gregory Peck with Mary Badham a.k.a. Atticus Finch and Scout)

I was so young that I did not appreciate who I was meeting. All I knew was I was meeting someone who was going to be in a movie about the story To Kill a Mockingbird. My mother shared part of the storyline with me so I could better appreciate the big deal that was happening in our lives. From what I was told by mom I fall in love with Scout Finch and I soon began to pretend I was her. Mr. Peck, in my world at the time, was second to the little girl Scout whom I immediately felt a connection with because of my own life experiences while living in Alabama. My mom was a good story re-teller because for years I truly believed Scout was a real little girl like me and my mom is also a good keeper of memories. 


(All stories blogged by me are my property and protected under copyright laws. No part may be used or reproduced in anyway without my permission ~ Maryanne Mesplé) 

Thursday, February 21, 2013

Alabama Monsters




January of 1962 changed my life forever. My mom was called home to Arizona because her mom was very ill.  For reasons my mom has never been able to explain she did not take me with her and instead chose to leave me in Alabama with a woman named Mable. The first time I met Mable was the first day of staying with her. Mable. To this day I don’t like the name Mable.




Mable lived at the very end of a very long up hill dirt road. That dirt road was in Alabama somewhere close to Montgomery or Mobile, or maybe that ugly road was in Highland Home, I really don’t know. I do recall that before my mom left me with Mable, I was living in Montgomery for a small while.  My mom worked at a restaurant where I tasted my very first Lemon Meringue Pie. That pie made leaving the 331 worth it for a small while, well, at least until I licked the last smears of lemony meringue off my plate. My mom no longer owned and operated the 331 Roadhouse, which was my first home after my parents divorced. I loved living at the 331 because life was so rich and everyday was filled with something new and exciting. The best part of living behind a roadhouse in a cabin was the swimming pool and the backwoods. I loved playing in the woods with my friends but not so much with my sister. Nope, playing anything with a sister that is 9 ½ years older is only asking for trouble and pain.



I remember one day at the 331 I was really into pretending I was a horse. My imagination gave me a real horse snort and the ability to prance better than and rear taller than Black Beauty. I loved being a horse; it was almost better than riding a horse. One day, I don’t know what possessed me but I, being 4, was properly pesky with persistence and begged and begged Kathleen my sis to play horses with me. Kathleen did not want to play with a 4 year old. Kathleen wanted to play with the boys who flocked around her like she was made of chrome and beer. Finally, after pestering my sis sufficiently, I broke that last straw. My older sibling spun around so fast her tightly curled auburn hair swung across her face just like a horses tail! My sister gave me “that look” and then collected up a thin twine of a rope. Kathleen placed the twine in my mouth and tying it tightly around my head explained that if I wanted to play horses  – I needed to know what it was really like to be a horse. Kathleen then took my flip-flops away. Kathleen then peeled off a long green twig from a nearby bush and told me she was going to use it like a riding crop. I stood looking up at my big sister, bare foot with a rough piece of twine in my mouth and my big brown eyes were asking her what next? What next was her spinning me around, pushing me forward and then slapping that green stinging twig on my backside and yelling “giddy up horse!”




My loving 14-year-old sister made me run barefoot through dirt with rocks and stickers and grass and through briars thick with berries, all the while snapping the tip of the twig against me causing my skin to welt up. She ran me up the dirt road to the thick woods and then into the woods we went until I lost my imagination and began to cry. I learned when I was 4 what it is like to be a horse and I never asked my sister to play horses with me again.  But then, this was while I was still living my wonder filled life at the 331 and one of my last memories of 331 was learning what it really felt like to be a horse.



My memories of Mable’s were different in texture than my memories of other times in my life. Mable memories are coarse, sticky, cold, and scary. Mable’s house was a long way from the 331 Roadhouse and a long way from my sister who married the love of her young life at 15. Mable’s house felt cold like an icy wind that penetrates you to the bone. I had no choice but to be at Mable’s house and it took me several weeks before I fully realized that my mom had indeed left me behind with a stranger. I missed my mom. I missed my sister and all her frustration with me. I missed my friends at the 331 and I even missed my father and my two brothers. I had not seen my father or brothers since my parents divorce.



In the morning Mable would wake me up for school or for chores on weekends, with a razor blade attitude like I had done something wrong in my sleep. She would bark out orders and I would dutifully follow her instructions for I was afraid of her. I had to get up and make the bed I slept in then get dressed and within a certain amount of time I had to be in the kitchen for breakfast. If I missed getting to the table by 1 minute I missed breakfast. I missed breakfast a lot. As I would be walking toward the table a minute late Mable would be clearing the breakfast away scraping the food into a bucket as she verbally admonished my willful laziness. I would watch eggs and grits and toast fall into the bucket. The sound of the silver fork slamming against the plate pierced my ears making my small-framed body tight. I can still hear her ugly demeaning words to this day. I don’t believe Mable liked children and I do believe she was being paid to keep me. Fortunate for me, I was not that big of an eater so getting used to not having breakfast was easy but I did not dare show that I did not care.  I was taught by Mable and her hand to show disappointment and to demonstrate that I was sorry and vocally express that I was learning a valuable lesson. Life went from magical to nightmarish and my yearlong days became days of deep sadness when I had to be in Mable’s presence. With my magical child freedom gone I became a wounded child serving what felt like a life sentence with wicked witch Mable as the matronly jail attendant.




One day while playing outside where I have always preferred to be, a young boy close to my age, 6 or 7, walked up to me and asked if I wanted to play. I was in aw! Someone my age! I was not aware that any people lived anywhere remotely near Mable’s prison. Play?

You can guess what my response was.  “Oh yes!” was my reply which was a bit over the top with loudness that made Peanut smile. Peanut saved my world! Yes, my new friend’s name was Peanut. Peanut had blond hair with squinty blue eyes and Peanut was skinny like me.  Peanut and I became best friends in less than a minute.



Mable did not care about where I was or what I was doing so long as I was not in her house during the day. So, after school, as soon as I put my red plaid satchel away I was outside calling Peanut to come play.

Peanut and I had a secret call that meant “meet me at the water’s edge”. That secret call would get us in trouble almost daily and trouble sounded like the monster Mable screeching obscenities from her smoked filled living room. I did not care because I learned that Mable would not come out and hit me. I discovered that Mable preferred cigarettes and whiskey over tormenting me after school. Mable knew that after my call to Peanut I would be disappearing soon and that was what she wanted.  Once the screeching was done, off I would go and soon Peanut and I were building our own little world in the Alabama swamps. I was happy to have my magic back again.  Although I could not see Peanut’s house from Mable’s I knew he was close by. I could not see his house because his house sat behind a grove of thickly wooded Sycamore, Oaks, and Elms and other brush. I know the names of the trees because Peanut taught me. The trees kept Peanut and I apart for only a small while. I was so thankful he got up the nerve to come ask me to be his friend. I was also happy that his house was close enough, hidden behind those trees, so that we could communicate via our fire engine siren calls that truly were symbolic as a calls for help and we did help one another.





In the swampy soggy, green smelling woods, Peanut and I hunted for signs of squirrel and skunk and dug up grubby worms. We tested our tracking skills by naming what animal made the most recent tracks in the muddy banks along the moving water’s edge. I don’t know how but we had a boat that we often used to float out to the middle of the waterway where there was a sandbar. Once we had beached the boat on the sands we would get out and look for special sticks and rocks and moss that we could use for decorating our imaginatively constructed forts. We crafted forts from fallen, waterlogged branches. Big branches would fall from trees and float along with the current until coming up against the sandbar’s traps. Peanut and I would pile up the branches much like a beaver’s dam and crawling under or inside we would tell one another secrets. Secrets about our lives and I learned Peanut’s life was a lot like mine. We kept one another safe by staying away from that treacherous dirt road that led to pain and sadness. 





Peanut and I would get home from school and do our business like chores and homework and then scream like sirens so we could meet up in the woods. We did this almost everyday for what felt like months. Although it was winter in Alabama I did not care about cold winds or wet drizzles and Mable did not care if I blew away. Because Mable did not care, I was able to go play and pretend I lived in a different world. One day while Peanut and I were out floating along in the rotting wooden flat-bottomed boat, he told me a story about monster armadillos. He described armadillos as being pink and hairy with red beady eyes and claws that could rip your heart out! I was petrified! All I could see in my mind’s eye was the armadillo purse my mom bought while we lived in Panama. My mom’s purse was dark brown, not pink, but the eyes on the armadillo that was rolled into a purse were red! I knew Peanut was telling the truth. You can always dye pink armadillos brown.  We were floating along,in the boat heading toward a sandbar, when Peanut upped his story a notch. Peanut described how monster armadillos loved to gather on sandbars and wait for food floating by. In my mind Peanut and I suddenly became monster armadillo food. I began to cry and Peanut began to cry because he had convinced himself his story was true!  Just imagine, two crying 6-year-old kids bawling their eyes out, in a boat that was barely water worthy, gently floating along heading toward a sandbar must have been a sight to see! When the boat landed we refused to get out and sat on the boat's bench cuddled in each other's arms for protection, knowing a big pink armadillo would soon be coming out of our fort to eat us up! Then, as if someone had waved a magic wand, he and I began to giggle and the giggling turned into loud snot producing laughter and we knew that out laughter chased away all the pink smelly armadillos! Safe! We were safe! We laughed the whole time while beached on the sand bar making sure no monster armadillos would approach us. When the sun began to sink behind the trees we pushed off from the sandbar to head toward what we called our prisons. Night was always long and always lonely. And unknown to us, this was our last day together.





Report card day was my last day living with Mable. Report card day was the last day I saw my best friend who saved my life for a while and who saved me from pink armadillos with laughter. I arrived at Mable’s after walking up the dirt road eager to do my duties and screech for Peanut. I was not in the house 5 minutes when Mable approached me about my report card. Mable wanted to see my grades and unfortunate for me I could not find them. Mable went to the bathroom and wet a towel and then yanked me up by one of my arms. She literally picked me up off the floor and carried me outside almost pulling my shoulder out of its socket. When Mable put me down she began to pop me with the twisted wet towel as she screamed about how incompetent I was.  Mable demanded that I run back down the dirt road to where the bus dropped Peanut and I off and as I ran Mable ran behind me popping my back and legs with the wet towel.  I was not crying I was screaming with tears flying from my eyes like the rain of a winter storm. Mable did not care. Back at the bus stop, there in the dirt, was my report card that must have dropped from my grip when I got off the bus. I picked my school grades up from the dirty road and sobbing my heart out I apologized as I handed the card to the Monster Mable. Mable took the report card and ripped it up saying it did not matter since I did not care enough to hang onto it. Then, she began popping me with the wet torture towel as she drove me like an animal back to her house. The towel, as it snapped against my young skin that left bleeding welts on my skinny little girl’s body. Mable justified her actions, yelling it was my entire fault and made me clean up quickly. Mable informed me, as I sobbed and washed myself, that my father was coming to get me and she could not wait for him to arrive. That news was the best news I had heard in a long while.


My father was coming to get me. Life was about to change, again.  I whispered little prayers of gratitude knowing my father would save me and I asked God to forgive me. I asked for forgiveness because one of my prayers was for my father to punch Mable in the face.



My father arrived. He rescued me from Mable. He did not punch her.

Life did not get better.

to be continued ...


(All stories blogged by me are my property and protected under copyright laws. No part may be used or reproduced in anyway without my permission ~ Maryanne Mesplé) 

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Grilled Cheese with Gumballs and Jerry


(Road House, a 1948 film directed by Negulesco)

Having a parent that owned a Roadhouse was a blast. A roadhouse, as explained on Wikipedia is; "A local inn or restaurant, the 'roadhouse' or 'road house' commonly serves meals, especially in the evenings, has a bar serving beer or hard liquor and features music, dancing and sometimes gambling. Most roadhouses are located along highways or roads in rural areas or on the outskirts of towns. Early roadhouses provided lodging for travelers but with the advent of faster means of transport than walking, horseback riding, or horse-drawn carriages, few now have rooms available. Roadhouses have a slightly disreputable image similar to honky tonks". Thanks Wikipedia and the 331 Roadhouse along HWY 331 in Alabama did qualify as a honky tonk!

The time that we lived at the 331 in Alabama, I was very young and very aware of my surroundings. Aside from spending hours upon hours in the deep woods of Alabama I spent most of my late mornings sitting at the dinning counter in the roadhouse eating a squished grilled cheese sandwich for breakfast/lunch. I did not eat much as a kid and I will confidently state that I lived on grilled cheese sandwiches! Even though I was not well aged in life experience I knew my sandwiches. I knew a grilled cheese sandwich was not a true grilled cheese sandwich until it was properly squished almost flat. To grill a flattened cheese sandwich one needed to use a heavy metal spatula to press down on the sandwich as it browned and as the cheese melted. Grilled cheese all squished and hot with the cheese melted into orange goo. Yep, at 4, I was already a food snob. 




Along with my morning cheese sandwiches there was a young man who, for a small while, spent many late mornings and early afternoons at the roadhouse having breakfast with me. Together we would sit at the counter. I was always twirling the bar stool I sat on around and around while at the same time biting into my sandwich while at the same time chatting. Without taking a breath I would report about the latest baby bird I found or how many pollywogs I had caught or reveal my plans for lightening bug capture and torment or sometimes I would just humming and twirl and eat. He, my chow companion would be hunched over a cup of coffee with a side of grits and eggs. On a few occasions that man emptied the gumball machine, one penny click and twist at a time, just for me. He arrived at the roadhouse with his pockets full of pennies singing, "got a penny in my pocket, got an angel on my shoulder, found a four leaf clover and I put it in my wallet" while his fingers would play tunes in his pockets using the pennies as his musical backup. After I finished my twirling breakfast is when he would insert into the gumball machine enough pennies to buy up all the gumballs and all the little shinny charms. As each gumball dropped and each charm escaped the machine, this wonderful kind man would hand them to me one by one and I would stuff my mouth until I could not open my jaws and I would stuff my pockets with the reaming gumballs and the charms. I would take the charms out behind the roadhouse, and line them up on the picnic table provided for the customers who were not allowed to use the front entrance. 

 (gumball machine charms)


My breakfast partner was very nice and he and my mom talked and talked and talked about music, and food, and life. I loved all the gumballs but more than the gumballs I loved the man's generosity and kindness he demonstrated toward me. His attention was not in a bad inappropriate way. My breakfast date demonstrated genuine heartfelt kindness. I could feel the kindness and I could feel he sincerely enjoyed my company. Being 4, it was a rare experience to encounter an adult that actually paid attention, listened, and shared their valuable adult time. I learned early on that adults lived in a world where every second was too precious to play and talk with kids. Nope, adults had business to attend to and it was my job to find ways to stay out of the way. Now, today, I find myself wondering about my friend and I feel that the time he and I spent sharing gumballs and trinkets was shortly after his 3 year old son drowned. Of course I knew the kind man sang and played the piano but since he did so late at night at the 331 entertaining the customers,I never got to watch. It was the law that I had to be outside of the roadhouse when evening came and customers filed in. Since we lived in the cabins adjacent to the road house I did hear a lot of his music and wow! I did not really know who this kind man was until years later. Oh, I also met his talented cousin. 


  (Jerry Lee Lewis)
I now believe when I shared my breakfast time with Jerry Lee Lewis, he was doing roadhouse tours because of the slump in his career upon the discovery he had married his cousin's 13 year old daughter. And we all know that that slump soon eased and he went on again to big success and more controversy.

(All stories blogged by me are my property and protected under copyright laws. No part may be used or reproduced in anyway without my permission ~ Maryanne Mesplé)